THE GRADUATION PARTY:Horizons Café was shining!

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David had returned from the United Kingdom with a Master’s degree in International Business from one of those prestigious business schools whose name relatives pronounce slowly.

The family had decided that such an achievement could not enter Uganda quietly.

So they threw a party.

And what a party.

The parking lot looked like a motor show. Inside, the tables were dressed better than some wedding committees. There was food in quantities that suggested famine had officially been defeated.

The alcohol came in all tribes.

Whisky. Wine. Champagne. Beer. Gin.

Even bottles Uncle Rwamiti suspected required a passport.

The DJ was excellent.

David sat at the high table in a beautiful suit, receiving gifts.

An uncle presented an envelope.

An auntie presented a new laptop.

Someone promised him a holiday.

His parents presented him with the keys to a car.

The room exploded.

“David! David! David!”

His mother wiped away tears.

She deserved to.

She remembered school fees. Visa applications. Air tickets. Rent in England. Pounds converted painfully from Uganda shillings. The telephone calls when David was discouraged. The graduation trip.

This was not merely David’s achievement.

It was a family harvest.

Then the master of ceremonies announced:

“Ladies and gentlemen, to give the closing remarks, may I invite our elder, Uncle Rwamiti.”

Applause.

Uncle Rwamiti walked slowly to the microphone.

He looked at David.

“My son, congratulations.”

Applause.

“Your parents have done something wonderful. They planted, watered, weeded and protected this tree until today we can see its branches.”

David smiled.

“But David…”

The room became quieter.

“Tomorrow morning, when the DJ has gone home, the champagne bottles are empty and these decorations have been removed, what happens?”

Laughter.

David laughed too.

Uncle Rwamiti continued.

“Please don’t misunderstand an old man. Tonight we are celebrating your Master’s degree. We should celebrate it properly.”

He looked toward David’s parents.

“But I have one small question.”

Pause.

“We have spent millions celebrating the knowledge David has acquired.”

Another pause.

“How much have we prepared for activating it?”

The room went quiet.

Someone at the back put down a glass.

Uncle Rwamiti smiled.

“Do not become worried. I am not asking David to produce a job tomorrow morning. Even chickens are allowed to sleep after a celebration.”

The room burst into laughter.

“But there is something we elders sometimes forget.”

“We educate our children to acquire knowledge. We send them to excellent schools. Then universities. Then prestigious universities overseas. They return with bachelor’s degrees, master’s degrees, MBAs and certificates.”

“We slaughter goats.”

“We buy whisky.”

“We give them cars.”

“We take photographs.”

“And then we say: Now go and succeed.”

He shook his head.

“But who taught them how?”

Silence again.

“Who taught David how to look at Uganda and identify a problem worth solving?”

“Who taught him how to turn International Business from words on a certificate into value somebody will pay for?”

“Who taught him how to approach a company when there is no vacancy advertised?”

“Who taught him how to test an idea cheaply?”

“How to recover from rejection?”

“How to build trust?”

“How to start small without feeling that a Master’s degree from Britain makes small beginnings beneath him?”

David was no longer laughing.

He was listening.

Uncle Rwamiti turned toward him.

“David, your degree is not the destination.”

“It is raw material.”

A murmur went around the room.

“The university has done its work. Your parents have done theirs.”

“Now begins yours.”

He pointed gently toward David’s certificate displayed beside the cake.

“That paper tells us what you have learned.”

“It does not tell us what you can make happen.”

Uncle Rwamiti paused.

“And parents, allow me to disturb your happiness for only two minutes.”

Laughter returned.

“When our educated children struggle, our first instinct is love.”

“We give them money.”

“We give them a car.”

“We give them an apartment.”

“We call our friend at the ministry.”

“We telephone another friend at the bank.”

“We finance a business.”

“And sometimes all this help helps.”

He paused.

“And sometimes…”

He smiled.

“…our help becomes very comfortable.”

The parents laughed uneasily.

Uncle Rwamiti raised his glass of water.

“There is nothing wrong with supporting our children. But support should eventually produce movement.”

“Otherwise we may accidentally finance standing still.”

That one landed.

David’s father leaned backwards in his chair.

Uncle Rwamiti continued.

“David, tomorrow I don’t want you to begin by asking, ‘Who will employ me?’”

“I want you to ask another question.”

He turned toward the young man.

“With everything I now know, whose problem can I solve?”

Silence.

“That question can take you places your CV cannot.”

He smiled again.

“Your Master’s degree has given you knowledge.”

“Now you must learn activation.”

“Knowledge must become observation.”

“Observation must find problems.”

“Problems must become solutions.”

“Solutions must become action.”

“Action must earn trust.”

“And trust, repeated long enough, becomes traction.”

He lifted his glass.

“So tonight, let us drink—”

The crowd cheered.

“Some of you have already obeyed that instruction excessively.”

The room erupted.

“But tomorrow morning, David, the real graduation begins.”

Uncle Rwamiti turned toward David’s parents.

“You have given this young man an excellent education.”

“Perhaps the greatest gift remaining is not another car, another degree or another envelope.”

“It may be helping him learn how to turn what he already knows into an independent, productive life.”

He raised his glass toward David.

“To David.”

Everyone stood.

“May your degree never become decoration on your parents’ wall.”

Laughter.

“May your knowledge find work.”

“May your work create value.”

“And may your value create traction.”

“Congratulations, my son.”

The applause was thunderous.

But somewhere between the champagne, the presents and the music, a question had entered Horizons Café that had not been on the programme:

After we educate them, who teaches them how to activate what they know?


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